Jenni ‘Jwoww’ Farley may be known for her over-the-top Jersey style and attitude, but whether you love it or hate it, she’s got the confidence to carry it off. Confidence is a girl’s best accessory, after all!
She offers some really great advice to on her website about feeling beautiful and gaining back confidence when it’s lost:
Well, for starters, you are already beautiful. Seriously, who is to tell you that you aren’t? You are, and that’s THAT. Feeling confident and having swag is a vicious circle, trust me, so believing this is step number one. If you have confidence it shows, and the actions of you and those around you back it up. If you feel down about yourself, people (especially guys) can smell that from a mile away and take advantage of it. So stay strong and confident!
I may have a lot of confidence, but it sure as s*** isn’t because I’ve never had anything bad said about me. The truth is that haters are gonna hate no matter who you are or what you do. Period. Accept it, and then move on. Once you know you can’t change them, it makes it a lot easier to forget about them. At the end of the day, you gotta look out for you and do what’s best for YOU.
So if you’ve been hanging around with people that make you feel anything but great, leave those losers behind and find a new crew. Take care of yourself and do what makes you happy. It sounds lame, but remember that you bring something to the table that no one else does. And if you’re unhappy with your look, try changing up your style or getting into a new routine… There’s a reason why the main chick in every movie cuts her hair or all of sudden starts caring about what she looks like after bad shit happens – it’s important to feel good about yourself and sometimes all it takes is a little change.